Closure

Well, this is it, the last blog. Sorry it has taken so long, but life has been crazy, as you can imagine. It’s good to be home, but coming back to life has proved to be more physically and emotionally exhausting than I imagined.
I had a bunch of different titles picked out for my final entry that would best encompass our assimilation: Home Sweet Home, Reality Bites, Last One, etc….but honestly, closure is what we are still processing as we move into a new place and re-join the work force, so there you have it.
Firstly, I would like to thank all of our family and friends for their thoughts, prayers, and support when we made the decision to do this trip. I know it probably wasn’t the easiest news to take when we told you our plans and I know it may have propelled some people into constant states of worry, but we just want you to know we are so grateful for your support.
To my loyal followers (all three of you): thank you for tolerating my sporadic & disorganized entries, poor grammar, and tangential writing. Seriously, my spelling of “grammar” was just autocorrected. ;)
Jason and I had such an amazing and unforgettable time; and were very fortunate to go on such a comprehensive trip without incident or injury. We didn’t get sick and the only items that didn’t make it home were things that were accidentally left behind. (My favorite striped pajama pants for instance.)
A close girlfriend asked me when we returned home if our “travel bug” had been satisfied, and at the time I felt perhaps it was full and now just taking much needed rest. However, later that evening I went for a sunset run around Mission Bay, with all of it’s possibilities, and a lump settled in my throat as I thought more carefully about her question. Coming home has been more emotionally confusing than adolescence. As I ran I reconsidered the current state of my “travel bug” and knew immediately that this urge, this travel bug, is never satisfied; that once bitten it just keeps gnawing at you until you buy your next plane ticket and dust off your passport. It doesn’t eat, doesn’t drink, doesn’t rest until you are back on the road. If someone were to ask me if I could get on a plane tomorrow - where would I go? Without hesitation I know this answer to this question: Sao Pao, then Buenos Aires, hop over to Chile for some wine tasting, Peru to climb Machu Picchu, then some R&R on the beautiful beaches of Belize. Perhaps on the way back we can stop in Costa Rica, Guatemala, and Panama for some surf. A few weeks after that we would head back to Asia to spend some time in Vietnam, Loas, Cambodia, and Indonesia. I would also like to spend time in the countryside of Japan since we were only in Tokyo for a few days. I wonder if there is a direct flight from Japan to the Antarctic Islands? Travel Bug you say? More like Parasite.
I learned from my first European experience just after college that once you see a part of the world you have never seen before, the world only gets bigger; and with each subsequent trip, she gets bigger, bigger, and bigger and the excited desire to keep on seeing takes on weed-like traits and starts to rapidly and wildly grow. Then all of sudden the cravings come; the want and desire to be home; and you find yourself torn and confused. I have been here before, this constant state of confusion, when Jason and I got back from our Greek Isle-hopping honeymoon. I feel like I am not sure where I want to be more, home or away, and sometimes each desire is just as strong as the other, battling each other for attention. The feelings and confusion I know will come off the front burners in time, when the busyness of life takes more of the driver’s seat. I am sure that once I am sitting home in the comfort of my family and friends, laughing, and telling stories, that there is no other place in the world I’d rather be.
After a long trip like this, you may be asking about things we’ve learned. After so many experiences in so many different cultures, it is quite difficult to quantify the things we learned from our trip, but here are a few things I know for sure:
There is absolutely no place like home.
I love my country and I am privileged to have the right to vote, a voice.
I am lucky to have such a wonderful and amazing friend in my husband.
Husband friend aside, all women need girl time, especially sister time.
Governments should never censor their people.
It's amazing what amenities you can live without.
It's amazing what amenities you can't live without.
Having a worldview is important, even if it is from your living room.
I know more about Cricket than I ever wished to know.
There are some really wonderful people and really shitty people everywhere.
I will never again take for granted a toilet and toilet paper.
Love to you all! Thank you so much for following along in our adventures! Jason and I have been back for two weeks and already moved into a rental, have started back at work, and started house hunting (another adventure!!) We will be sure to keep you posted. We hope to see all of you soon!
Yours Truly,
Becca
Trip Fun Facts:
Total Days Traveled: 110
Total Distance Traveled: 91,467km/57,166mi
Total Distance Driven: 7,076km/4,422.5mi
Continents Visited: 4
Countries Visited: 23
Cities Visited: 63
Number of Passport Stamps/Visas: 40
Total Boat/Ferry Rides: 7
Total Train rides: 31
Total Flights: 18
Total Flight Hours: 98.16
Number of wrecked cars: 1
Number of speeding tickets: 1
Stays longer than three days: None
Where we wouldn’t mind living: Jeffery’s Bay, South Africa and Tokyo, Japan
The worst thing about traveling: missing out on other people’s lives.

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